Friday, May 31, 2013

Friday's Five

5.  We can take a hint.  Being a volunteer means moving decorative props up and down the stairs to the storage room as needed.  In most cases, we have no idea how this stuff is used, but during the holidays (read: every two weeks or so), we do a lot of transporting decorations and posters and such.  This big heart has been next to the stairs for two days, but no one gave us instructions ("This goes in the floor to the left of the door, beside the wooden red heart...no the other wooden red heart, the big one"), so we hadn't moved it.  Today, we came in from lunch to find this... We get the picture, Sister.



4.  Does anyone know how to use one of these things?




3.  Katie and Emily crocheted the Sisters scarves for thank-you gifts.  They totally dug them, especially the sparkly ones from Emily.  Not sure how we're going to top that come August.



2.  No swimming?  No problem.



1.  Chatting with our besties, who may have una bebé nueva come this time tomorrow.  Benvenieda al mundo, Ellie!  We can't wait to meet you!


Thursday, May 30, 2013

Guest Post from Katie and Emily


Hola!  Katie and Emily here.  We have just returned home after an amazing, adventurous whirlwind of a trip!  We met SO many kind and welcoming people in Paraguay and had so many great experiences.  Last week we had the most eye opening experience we had on our trip and one I’m sure we’ll never forget.  

As some of you know, we collected children’s clothing before we left to distribute to needy children in Paraguay.  During our trip, we visited “the people under the bridge” to take clothes to a few children whose homes Bill and Chelsey had visited before.  We knew that the barrio under the bridge was a very poor area, but nothing could have prepared us for the way these people live.  The streets are covered in garbage and broken glass.  These same streets are where we saw so many children running around and playing among piglets, chickens and stray dogs.  The homes are just a few feet apart from one another and are tiny shacks without electricity or running water.  Oftentimes they’re only one room structures and may not have a door, but some boards nailed together that can be moved in front of the doorway to create a bit of privacy instead. 


We wandered around the barrio with Madre Magdelana, visiting with families and passing out suckers to children for a good while before coming to one of the homes with children whom we knew needed clothing.  This family consists of 4 children, 2 of them being twin boys who are in Bill’s preschool class, an older sister, an older brother and their mother and father.  They were showing us their new house, which was one small room, about 9 x 9 and had 2 twin sized beds pushed side-by-side in the home.  Only one of the beds had a mattress.  We were welcomed into the home by the twins (4 years-old), their 7 year-old sister and their mother.  We chatted with them all for an hour or so and watched the boys jump on the bed, pretending to be monkeys and wrestle around with their sister, all just acting like totally normal, happy children.  Towards the end of our visit Bill told their mother that we had a small gift for the boys.  We didn’t have their sister’s clothing sizes at the time but she’ll get a clothing delivery soon as well.   The twins each received 3 new pairs of pants and 3 shirts.  They were so excited and thankful for their new “ropas” and I think we were equally as excited to see the pleasure they got from them.




We had two major takeaways from our experience with the people under the bridge.

1.)  We had never seen such sad living conditions.  What we saw was like a scene out of a movie that you don’t ever expect to see for yourself. 

2.)  Regardless of the environment in which these people live, they are still perfectly happy, normal people.  The twins’ mom made a comment that will forever stay with us.  She said, “It is good for you all to see this.  You don’t have places like this in your country.”  We were both struck and saddened by her statement because although she is absolutely correct, we had no idea that she was aware of how different her way of life is from ours here.  Although her family has so few material possessions, they are still just a happy family who are grateful for what they do have.



Saturday, May 25, 2013

Lost and Found

It was the end (or so we thought) of a very long day.

We were at the other house for a Spanish lesson with Maria Louisa when it began to rain.  Instead of walking the 30 minutes from the bus stop in the rain, we decided to wait a few hours until Delma could give us a ride.  When Delma arrived to pick us up, she made an ill-advised three point turn on the road in front of the house (which is under construction), and got the little car stuck in two feet of pure, sloppy, red Paraguayan mud.  The car was knee deep by the time she asked us for help.   We spent the next two hours, along with a neighbor, trying to dig the car out... to no avail.  This may come as a surprise, but they don't seem to have a "tow truck" section in the phone book...  Oh wait, they don't have phone book!   

In any case, we were covered in mud (B had mud in his unibrow), cold and exhausted when Delma broke down and called the Superior, who called some friends with a big truck and heavy cables, and we found another ride home.

Barefoot (our shoes rendered useless with sludge), we (Brammell) had to kill a tarantula in front of the front door.  We were still outside marveling at the dead thing when the other sisters arrived and opened the gate to let the car inside.  Our two dogs, Fida and Alma took off, screaming and barking, and before we knew what was happening, they were attacking a perrita who had wandered onto their territory.  

We separated them, but Fida (read:  alpha female, attempted murderess) had done some pretty serious damage.  We were relatively certain she would bleed out before too long, but the little thing wouldn't budge.  I expected her to wander off to die, but she stayed there, just outside the gate.  We had no idea what to do, and please understand, being volunteers, we have very little power in these circumstances.  B left the scene to take a shower, and when I went up, Hermana Susana was on the stairs distraught.  Her big heart wouldn't let her leave the perra outside to die in pain.


Here's the part where I tell you how smart I am.  After the porcupine incident (the second midnight trip to the vet), when we had such a good experience with Dr. Jesus, I swiped a business card on the way out, just in case we needed it.  Well, we did.  We convinced Hna. Susana to call, just to ask what to do (like a vet is going to say, "leave the dog to die.")  This resulted in a THIRD midnight trip to the vet in just two months.  



Dr. Jesus stitched her up, and all of the sudden we have a new little pet (who can't come in contact with the outside dogs).  



We first named her Dirty, Hna. Ylse's idea, because sucio ("dirty" in Spanish), sounded "dirty," to her and Dirty, in English sounded much nicer.  (There's no explaining that Dirty sounds dirty to us.)  Whew!  A few days later, I changed her name to Chiquita (short for Chiquitita, which I am told is the more accurate description of a very small dog.  Chiquita is more a medium-sized small dog.  Again, whew!)  

The next morning, she got two baths and a haircut.  I was anxious to see if she was actually a blonde under all that dirt.   We were out of town that weekend, and the Sisters just didn't know what they would possibly do with her for a day and a half.  When we came home, though, she had her own box and a rug, and an old blanket, and had left six pee spots in the office upstairs.


During the past two weeks, I tried not to think of what would become of this dog come August.  We talked and prayed about finding her a new home, but none of our friends were interested.  I maybe looked up the rules about bringing a new pet into the U.S.  As it turns out, it's not so difficult.  Living with an un-potty trained dog was getting a little easier.  The weather warmed up, so when when we weren't in the room, she could stay in the courtyard, and she didn't seem to mind that too much.  She still tried to get in the bed three times a night, and you had to get up and move her back to her box.  Otherwise, she was great.  Our amigita


This morning, we got a call from Hna. Susana, who had been out visiting in the neighborhood when she noticed a bunch of Chiquita look-alikes at a blue house on the next block.  She asked about them to the owner, and indeed, she had lost one of her brood a few weeks ago!  As it turns out, the dog belongs to the family of one of our students in our Wednesday tutoring class, Ilse.  We took the dog down, and she was thrilled to see her owner.  (I'm not going to lie, it was a little heartbreaking that she preferred this lady over me.)  After we said our goodbyes, and it was time to go, Chiquita took off, straight home, leaving her real mom, and us, in the dust.  







Thursday, May 23, 2013

Fish Tank

A volunteer's work is never done...and very rarely what you expect.

Hna. Noami has a screensaver that she watches with some regularity. It shows an under water scene with fish of all shapes and sizes, swimming around and doing the cute things fish do. She's very generous about inviting you to watch it with her. She especially enjoys it when the crabs wander in and try to eat the smaller fish.

Tonight B went into the computer room to ask a question, and found her distraught. Instead of her usual perky fish collection frolicking in crystal blue waters, the screen was black and all that was left of the fish were their skeletons.

My husband spent the next half hour figuring out, translating the options, and adjusting the settings to revive the on-screen aquarium. "More crabs. Less sea horses. Make the bubbles bigger."

Add to resume: Screensaver aquarium repair.



Sunday, May 19, 2013

We have visitors!!!

We have visitors and we are really excited that they are here!  Katie and Emily arrived in Asuncion early on Friday morning and we have been running like crazy ever since.  

A brief recap of the weekend:
  • Friday - 
    • 7:30 AM girls arrived at the Airport in the capitol city of Asuncion 
    • 12:30 - 6:30 PM bus ride to Encarnacion
    • 8:00 PM arrive at Sister's House followed by dinner and visiting
  • Saturday - 
    • 9:00 AM depart for Posadas, Argentina
    • 10:00 AM arrive in Posadas and spend time shopping, looking and lunching
    • 1:00 PM depart for San Ignatio Ruins, Argentina (photo right)
    • 2:30 PM arrive, walk to the ruins and tour
    • 6:00 PM depart for Jardin America, Argentina
    • 8:00 PM arrive at the Sister's house in Jardin America followed by dinner and bed
  • Sunday - 
    • 5:30 AM breakfast and 5:00 AM depart for Iguazu Falls
    • 9:00 AM arrive at the falls and walk around/tour for 6 hours
    • 3:30 PM leave the falls, make a quick stop at some Mines in Argentina and head home
    • 7:00 PM arrive in Posadas (right across the bridge from our place)
    • 8:30 PM arrive in the Sister's house followed by dinner, visiting and bed...

A couple other facts about the travel...   

1) Total travel time for Katie and Emily to Paraguay was around 31 hours...     

2) The time changed in Argentina so a 5:30 AM breakfast was REALLY 4:30 AM (Paraguay time).... 

Iguazu Falls was amazing!!!  It is unlike anything that I have ever seen.  It is so unlike Niagara that you really cannot compare them... although I will try.  Iguazu is in the middle of the rain forest and it is surrounded by all kinds of forest trails.  We saw Toucans, Butterflies and other forest animals (which I plan on writing about when things calm down a bit here and we have a little more time).  There are also tons and tons of falls of all different sizes.  The largest "Devils Throat" is so deep that you cannot see the bottom because of the rising mist.  We owe a huge "gracias" to Gabby and Melisa - our friends from down here - who accompanied us on the adventure.  They were awesome tour guides and a whole lot of fun, too.

Anyhow, more to come about the trip.  I just wanted to let everyone know the girls are here, safe and that we are taking advantage of the time they have to visit.  Tomorrow is a full day of work with Jardin starting at 8:00 AM.



Friday, May 17, 2013

Friday's Five

5.  Around the dinner table, the sisters were commenting on my rosy complexion, and about how the Paraguay sun suited me.  I thanked them, and confessed that I was also wearing pinta on my caro. "Oh, she's a trampe!"

Found out later, after asking the awkward question, "Umm... Did you just call me a prostitute?" that it means I'm a cheater.

4.  Last Sunday (maybe four Sundays ago, who knows?) was Election Day.  Here are Maria and Christian sporting their fresh ink.



3.  On any given trip out of the house, you are fairly likely to see a man relieving himself in the street.  Going to church last night, we saw two.  Need to go?  Just pull right over (or, more likely, stop the vehicle in the middle of the road), put the hazard lights on, step right out and go.  There's no need to make an effort to conceal your behavior by, say, using the car to block the view... just go.



2.  Katie and Emily are on their way!  They managed to cram all the goodies that were generously donated into enormous bags and get them into the country this morning.  (Muchas Gracias to American Airlines for waiving the bag fees!)  Their fifth and final leg of the trip is a six-hour bus ride from Asuncion to Encarnacion.  It's sad, but the last photo of us together is at my wedding in 2010.  




1.  Dogs and porcupines do not mix.  Our dogs, Fida and Alma fought porcupine and I'm pretty sure the porcupine won.  We ended up at the vet's office at midnight plucking needles from their faces, noses, tongues, inside their mouths, and between their teeth.  Un desastre!





Thursday, May 16, 2013

A trip to the Zoo

Tuesday and Wednesday were holidays in Paraguay, so we had some time off.  Tuesday was Dia de la Madre and Wednesday was Paraguay's Independence day.  A few notes about holidays here:

1.  Nobody finds it necessary to warn us in advance.  Saturday morning we had a meeting with the VOICA coordinator, who casually mentioned our two days off this week.  We were so surprised, we didn't believe her and made her call the Principal to confirm.  So basically, we had to mad-dash plan our mini-vacay (no easy task when you have to get other people to make phone calls and travel arrangements for you).

2.  They always put holidays back-to-back.  In April we had the Dia del Maestro (Teacher's Appreciation Day), which backed up to another Encarnacion holiday.  In March the Birthday of Encarnacion was celebrated immediately preceding Holy Week.

3.  There are a lot of holidays.  See #2.  Our ten paid holidays are puny in comparison.

As our hastily planned mini-vacay to the San Rafael Nature Reserve was cancelled due to inclement weather, we settled for an afternoon trip to the zoo with Clara, Virginia, and her hijos, Facundo and Alejandra.



Definitely not what we are accustomed to.  Let's just say, B didn't need his binoculars.  See for yourself.




The zoo is not run or funded by the government, rather it is the product of one guy with a lot of money and a penchant for keeping exotic animals in tiny cages.




Thoughts:

1.  It smelled soooo bad.
2.  You could actually see the animals going insane.
3.  My emotions ran from sad to angry and back again.
3.  I kind of want to put the zoo's owner in a cage with one of the leopards.
4.  No worries, I emptied a bottle of hand sanitizer on Clara when we left.

Sunday, May 05, 2013

Jesuit Ruins

Yesterday, Chelsey and I travelled 40 km outside of Encarnacion to visit the Jesuit Ruinas at La Santísima Trinidad de Paraná and Jesús de Tavarangue.  This is a must-do trip when you are in Encarnacion for a while (in case any of you are planning on making trips down here soon).  We were originally going to go by ourselves but Sister Mariana organized a trip for "the chicas" (right) at the other house and invited us to go along.  As background, the chicas are girls, age 14-23, who are from backcountry Paraguay but live with the Sisters so they can go to school here in Encarnacion.  To pay for their stay, school, food, etc., they all have jobs working in the community.  The people they work for pay the Sisters and then they get to go to a good school.  It is a great program and they are all a lot of fun.  We teach English class to some of them (whoever wants to come) on Thursday afternoons.  Our journey started at 2:30 in the afternoon.  The weather had been overcast all day and we were just waiting for the rain to wash the plans away.  There are not many cloudy days in Paraguay that don't include driving rain and thunderstorms.

Anyhow, back to the story about the Jesuit Ruins.  Paraguay was founded in 1524 and the missions were founded in 1609 (that is two years after Jamestown if I remember AP US History).  The Jesuit missionaries were in the area to evangelize the native Guaraní people.  As I think I have mentioned before, Guaraní is an official language in Paraguay.  The people here are very proud that they have two official languages (Spanish, too) as they are the only country in South America to claim that distinction.  After 150 years of building, the missions were complete and many of the Guaraní people changed their way of life completely by moving into pueblos of 2,000-3,000 people surrounding the missions.  

The missionaries provided an "education" to the Guaraní, taught them of Western Society and put the Guaraní language on paper for the first time.  I make no judgements about whether the missionaries here were good/bad for the people or were welcome at the time.  I do think, however, it is safe to say that they had a different style than present-day missionaries.

First, we visited La Santísima Trinidad de Paraná (photos left and above).  We arrived in daylight and had a guided tour although we did not take much from the tour as the guide was speaking in both Spanish and Guaraní.  

Next, we went to a park in the area and spotted two fine specimens in the woods (left and right).  Did you know that porcupines climb trees? Did you know that I had a cousin who was Guaraní?  Neither did I.  



We concluded the night 12 km away at a second ruins site, Jesús de Tavarangue.  It was dark by the time we arrived and I really was not sure how well that was going to work out.  It was AWESOME.  They play classical baroque music and light the ruins up after dark.  We were out in the middle of nowhere so the stars were really bright and we had some amazing views when the clouds would cooperate.  We saw a shooting star while touring these nearly 400 year old ruins.  AWESOME!

If you are interested in learning more about the history of Paraguay, and specifically, the missionaries there is a film, The Mission (1986) with Robert Deniro that I would recommend.

If you are interested in reading more, Wikipedia has a pretty good page on the ruins here.  They were declared World Heritage Sites by UNESCO in 1993.  Paraguay is really pushing its tourism hard and, as a result, is doing  a good job of maintaining the site.  I would recommend them if you are in the neighborhood.

Friday, May 03, 2013

VISA Update - I can stay!!!


FIRST, sorry this is posting so late.  We just got back from the Vet (12:40 AM). I will let Chels explain the circumstances tomorrow.... It was ugly.  

I am pleased to report that I am legally in Paraguay and will be staying here for a while longer (see stamps to prove it at right).  The result is beautiful and I am thrilled... but, like all interactions with a Government Agency, there was inevitably some red tape.  I have no complaints AT ALL but I do have to share the story:

In the morning I talked with the very helpful people at the US Embassy.  They put in a phone call to the head of Foreign Immigration in Paraguay on my behalf and explained my situation.  The Head of Foreign Immigration (for the whole Country) then called the Immigration boss in Encarnacion and I was instructed to go visit said boss at his office.

The boss understood the situation and said that the US Embassy should have stapled my passports (old and new together) after they voided my old one but that, nevertheless, my other Visa was still valid and would remain so until the date of expiration (May 28).  He explained that if the embassy had stapled the documents together then people would have understood that the visa in my old passport was related to my new passport (seems kinda silly, but... whatever).  The boss called the people at the Bridge and instructed me to go leave the Country so that I could get a new "Exit" stamp, enter Argentina and then turn right back around and come to Paraguay so I could get a new "Entrance" stamp without a 3 day limitation.

We followed his orders.  The entire situation had to be explained 4 more times to 4 different people - when exiting Paraguay, entering Argentina, leaving Argentina (4 minutes after entering) and then when re-entering Paraguay.  Each one of those people also explained that the passports should be stapled together.

Chelsey and I also learned from the boss in Encarnacion that we should be able to get new Visas in Posadas which is just on the other side of the bridge.  We thought we were going to have to travel 12 hours to a different city SO this is definitely a great thing to know.  It will save us bunches of time and cash.

Anyhow, the conclusion... I take many things away from this whole debacle:

  1. Your experience at a border (and possibly in dealing with the Government) depends more on who is working than what the law is;
  2. in Paraguay it is best to cite the name of the Immigration boss when trying to explain complicated situations, and;
  3. most importantly, things work out so try not to stress too much about things you cannot control and what 'might' happen in the future.  We have enough to worry about in the present with what we can control.  

Wednesday, May 01, 2013

Spiders Everywhere

I am still in limbo regarding my visa...  I talked to the embassy this morning and they are working on resolving the issue although I think it will be a slow process because today is a holiday.  I am trying not to think too much about it.

Today we are cleaning the house in preparation for a visit from the Sister in charge of all of South America.  I think she arrives tomorrow.  Anyhow, in an effort not to think too much about the visa thing, I decided to post about something else really scary... SPIDERS.

I think we are up to like 9 Tarantula sightings.  Chelsey and I encountered this behemoth in the yard on Monday.  We were sitting outside reading and I spotted it (and one smaller spider) in the grass.  Chelsey filmed while I neutralized the threat.